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Communication is Everything
The success of any relationship depends on the quality of your communication. The number one skill you need is to know how to listen so people will speak and speak so people will listen.
With the pressures of a busy life, it’s all too easy to fly off the handle and react in the moment. We all have to be able to communicate effectively and pass on our skills to everyone we are in relationship with.
The good news is that the tools are very easy to learn, the challenge is in rewiring ourselves to use them.
I use these powerful communication tools with everyone I coach and we work on them week by week until they are second nature. The results speak for themselves.
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One couple, Jill and Mark whom I work with individually to help them rebuild their marriage have changed their relationship in literally two weeks. They now listen to each other until they fully understand what the other means instead of making up what they think the other means. The respect and warmth returned virtually immediately, they were amazed with their results.
Shelley used the skills with her mother (a challenge in itself) and discovered just how much her mother loved her. When she really heard this, Shelley was able to thank her mother for all she had done and let her know that her job was now complete and that Shelley was totally able to look after herself. (By the way Shelley is 39!).
If you want to use these skills yourself, begin by following the tips in my Five Steps to Great Communication and come to the Designer Relationship Workshop on Saturday 26th Feb 2005 - click here to see more.
I’ll be showing you exactly how to communicate with ease and you’ll have a chance to try it out for yourself. You may even like to have a one-off two-hour Miracle Communications Coaching session with me.
