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My Five Top Tips for Finding Love
1. Decide what you really want from a relationship
Most people know what they don't want from a relationship but seldom think about what they do want. So, get thinking - until you are clear about what you do want how will you know you've got it?
2. Decide what type of man or woman you want a relationship with
Top goal -setters know the power of writing down your goals increases the chance of them happening, so take time and describe the type of man you want a relationship with.
3. Become happy with yourself - don't expect someone else to fill in the gaps!
If you're not happy with yourself, how do you expect anyone else to be? Work on becoming happy with yourself, before embarking on your next relationship and see the difference this makes. Start by learning to appreciate yourself and what you have to offer.
4. Look at the negative beliefs that have been holding you back and change your outlook
There are lots of ways to do this, take a look at Fiona's book Be Your Own Life Coach or her tape, Falling in Love with Yourself or book a few sessions with a Coach to focus on this specifically.
5. Take action and be prepared to walk away from relationships that don't work
Decide on what you can do not on what you can't. Put energy into the action steps you can take. And, remember it's the relationships you walk away from that create the space for something and someone wonderful to come into your life!
